In every work environment or even in your daily life, you will meet different kinds of people. Some may become your friends and some will not. Some will serve as a lesson and some will teach you a lesson, and of course... there will be TOXIC people. These are people who will bring you down and polute your mind and soul with their toxicity. These shall not enter your personal life and shall remain as stranger after you're done with them.
It was my second job when I first encountered the most toxic person.. let's call her MY. She was nice to me as I enter the new company. Always accompany me for lunch and on our way home. As I spend too much time with her, she changed. She calls me during weekends and ask work. Like, really? IT IS WEEKEND! During work, usually I get to work early and as soon as she arrives, she makes follow up that doesn't make sense, she even gave me duties that are not related in my job description. Yes, I know that you can do that but YOU ARE NOT MY BOSS. Hello? Are you fucking mental? Ugh. 10 months of interim and I've had enough. I resigned. As soon as I had my last day, I blocked her in my Facebook account. Yup, I did it. For my own good.
Just as I thought everything will be fine... I met another. Now on my 3rd job. Let's call her (yeah, it's a girl again) AS. She talks like shit. Loud and irritating. She always say something about you or about anything. Is that how you grew up?
First of all, stop judging everything and everyone based on what you see. Try to seek deeper and you may see that not everything and everyone is pleased on how you act.
So how to handle these types of people?
Know the art of DEADMA. Yes, that's what I will do... (after this post) Haha!
Deadma and leave their toxicity behind. Move on and show them what you got!
